Monday morning I thought I was going to be sick. The thought of Sterling leaving gave me not just emotional, but real physical pain. It still does when I think about it. I've been trying to keep my days so busy that by the time I get time to rest, that is all my body and mind wants to do. I'm afraid to sit too long because I know that my ache will just grow. I know, I know, this is only day two of a six year journey.
We'll get through this and we'll be stronger for it, I just wish it didn't hurt so dang much.
Please pray for Sterling and I. I know that while he is very excited about starting his military career, he is hurting as well.
In the meantime, I'll be busy studying. As always.
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
It's been a while, eh?
I know, I know, it's been A LONG time since I've actually updated this thing. As I know that this is the main way that some of you keep up, I apologize.
Last month was a never-ending trip for Sterling. He was gone for more than half of the month to various conferences and award ceremonies and I was busy with the dog and studying. This month... well this month has been no better and will get no better!
The first week of May I had finals. I was worried about them, but I passed all my classes and everything got done. I also had the opportunity to TA (teaching assistant) for second year medical students in a digestive microbiology lab practical. It was a huge learning experience and also kind of funny as I'll be taking this class in two years haha!
Sterling graduated with his masters in geography on the 6th. It was probably the longest graduation ceremony I have ever been to. I'm so proud of him, but I'll be glad to not have to sit through another one of those any time soon! On the 7th, Sterling was officially commissioned as a second lieutenant in the Army. It was a really nice ceremony and I got to pin on one of his ranks. On the 8th, my older sister, Amy, finally graduated with her degree in chemical engineering! Keep her in your prayers for a job!
This past weekend (14th and 15th) I was a bridesmaid in Ms. Andrea Pietrykowski, oops! I mean MRS. Andrea MILLER's wedding :). Andrea and her family were so great and they got Sterling and I a hotel room for the entire weekend. We had such a great time. We drank too much... but we were the life of the party (other than the bride and groom of course) and we spent the night dancing and telling stories and just having a wonderful time. It is exactly what we needed :)
I started my first summer class this week... Statistics. Ugh. But it's online so maybe that's better?
Sterling and I also got a roommate. Her name is Emaly and she will be living with me for the next two years. So far we are getting along great and I think that she is going to be a great roommate.
This weekend is Sterling's last weekend in Michigan. We are having a going away party for him on Friday night and that should be a great time. I'm still not sure if I am prepared for what is coming, but at this point I have no choice. For those of you who don't know, on the 23rd, Sterling is leaving for Ft. Knox where he will work at a summer training (called LTC) that he actually went to, that is for ROTC cadets. After that (around August) he is going to Ft. Benning, Georgia for his BOLC (Basic for Officers) training. That will get over around December and hopefully he will have some time off for the holidays. After that, he is going to ranger school which is also in Ft. Benning. When he finishes with that he will go to his assigned post in Ft. Campbell, TN, the 101st Airborne (which is where he wanted to go) to start his career as an Infantry Officer. He'll most likely get deployed his second or third year out, though we won't know for a while.
I am so proud of everything Sterling has done. He has been named the top cadet in Michigan and he has been picked for all of the places that he picked as first choice. I know he is going to do great things in the Army.
So now you may be wondering, what about me? Well, I will be here in Michigan for at least the next six years. Sterling and I will do our best to visit, but we won't be living together until I am finished with school. It's sad to think about. Really depressing actually. But we'll get through it. Mainly because I am going to be so busy with school I won't have time to miss him. I used to think that getting into the DO/PhD program was God's way of telling me I should be a research physician... now I think that he is just trying to keep me really busy so I don't get too sad.
In other news, I have found a great lab to do research in. I love my project and I love coming to work. In fact sometimes it's hard to go home, but I know I have a puppy waiting :)
My good friend just had a baby and I've developed a new love... crocheting baby hats. Mainly because I can finish one off in a couple hours. If you know anyone who needs a baby hat, you let me know :)
Last month was a never-ending trip for Sterling. He was gone for more than half of the month to various conferences and award ceremonies and I was busy with the dog and studying. This month... well this month has been no better and will get no better!
The first week of May I had finals. I was worried about them, but I passed all my classes and everything got done. I also had the opportunity to TA (teaching assistant) for second year medical students in a digestive microbiology lab practical. It was a huge learning experience and also kind of funny as I'll be taking this class in two years haha!
Sterling graduated with his masters in geography on the 6th. It was probably the longest graduation ceremony I have ever been to. I'm so proud of him, but I'll be glad to not have to sit through another one of those any time soon! On the 7th, Sterling was officially commissioned as a second lieutenant in the Army. It was a really nice ceremony and I got to pin on one of his ranks. On the 8th, my older sister, Amy, finally graduated with her degree in chemical engineering! Keep her in your prayers for a job!
This past weekend (14th and 15th) I was a bridesmaid in Ms. Andrea Pietrykowski, oops! I mean MRS. Andrea MILLER's wedding :). Andrea and her family were so great and they got Sterling and I a hotel room for the entire weekend. We had such a great time. We drank too much... but we were the life of the party (other than the bride and groom of course) and we spent the night dancing and telling stories and just having a wonderful time. It is exactly what we needed :)
I started my first summer class this week... Statistics. Ugh. But it's online so maybe that's better?
Sterling and I also got a roommate. Her name is Emaly and she will be living with me for the next two years. So far we are getting along great and I think that she is going to be a great roommate.
This weekend is Sterling's last weekend in Michigan. We are having a going away party for him on Friday night and that should be a great time. I'm still not sure if I am prepared for what is coming, but at this point I have no choice. For those of you who don't know, on the 23rd, Sterling is leaving for Ft. Knox where he will work at a summer training (called LTC) that he actually went to, that is for ROTC cadets. After that (around August) he is going to Ft. Benning, Georgia for his BOLC (Basic for Officers) training. That will get over around December and hopefully he will have some time off for the holidays. After that, he is going to ranger school which is also in Ft. Benning. When he finishes with that he will go to his assigned post in Ft. Campbell, TN, the 101st Airborne (which is where he wanted to go) to start his career as an Infantry Officer. He'll most likely get deployed his second or third year out, though we won't know for a while.
I am so proud of everything Sterling has done. He has been named the top cadet in Michigan and he has been picked for all of the places that he picked as first choice. I know he is going to do great things in the Army.
So now you may be wondering, what about me? Well, I will be here in Michigan for at least the next six years. Sterling and I will do our best to visit, but we won't be living together until I am finished with school. It's sad to think about. Really depressing actually. But we'll get through it. Mainly because I am going to be so busy with school I won't have time to miss him. I used to think that getting into the DO/PhD program was God's way of telling me I should be a research physician... now I think that he is just trying to keep me really busy so I don't get too sad.
In other news, I have found a great lab to do research in. I love my project and I love coming to work. In fact sometimes it's hard to go home, but I know I have a puppy waiting :)
My good friend just had a baby and I've developed a new love... crocheting baby hats. Mainly because I can finish one off in a couple hours. If you know anyone who needs a baby hat, you let me know :)
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Procrastinating by updating!
Hello friends! Sorry I've been absent from the blogging world lately, however, I have been keeping up to date with yours :) Life has been kind of hectic lately and I just haven't made time to update. But now I am because I don't want to go and take pictures of 130 gut samples...
1. First of all, I officially joined a lab and am starting to work on my actual PhD work. I am working in a lab where we study the relationship between the gut and bone loss. It sounds like a stretch, but it's pretty cool stuff. I am also working on a project on studying the benefits of probiotics on bone loss, but ultimately we would like to treat patients with diseases like IBD and Crohn's with the probiotics to increase health in both the gut and the bone. This is a shout out to you Taylor... I'm going to feed you bacteria some day!
While it has been really exciting finding a lab and joining it and finding a place here at MSU where I fit in and belong, it's also a really scary transition. I need to know things now. The current grad student is defending her work next week, then she is leaving for her post-doc at NYU. I will be second in command and one of the head honcho's around here. Kind of intimidating.
2. Sterling is gone again... He is actually traveling and away for half of the month in April. It's kind of crazy actually. Let's see, last weekend I dropped him off Friday morning to go to Gettysburg for the weekend (with ROTC) and I picked him up Sunday night. Monday morning I dropped him off at the airport to go to Seattle for a conference to present his research (from his masters work) and I get to pick him up Thursday night. Then on Sunday morning I will take him to the airport again to go to Virginia and I think I will pick him up next Thursday. Traveling man. It's kind of a prelude to what is on the horizon...
3. We have Sterling's leave date: May 23rd. Yeah, that's a little too soon for me. There is nothing I can do about it, but accept it and deal with it. Doesn't make it suck any less.
4. I am moving out of my apartment and into a house in a few months! Am I excited? So excited! The main reason is the fenced in backyard. My life will be so much easier! Especially with Sterling gone... that poor dog doesn't get nearly as much exercise as he would like so this will be wonderful for him. Plus I will have a roommate which will help when Sterling is away.
5. I am starting medical school in a few months. While I love the graduate program I am in here at MSU, I am so excited to start taking med classes. I mean, medical school was my goal for so long and now I am finally there! It's going to be hard (especially since I'm also doing grad school) but it will be so worth it in the end. Someday (in the far away future) I'll graduate and be able to do whatever I want... I just don't know what that is at the moment haha!
Okay, I think that I don't really have anything else new going on... so unfortunately, I need to get back to the reading and get back to taking pictures of guts (they are pretty cool looking though :))
1. First of all, I officially joined a lab and am starting to work on my actual PhD work. I am working in a lab where we study the relationship between the gut and bone loss. It sounds like a stretch, but it's pretty cool stuff. I am also working on a project on studying the benefits of probiotics on bone loss, but ultimately we would like to treat patients with diseases like IBD and Crohn's with the probiotics to increase health in both the gut and the bone. This is a shout out to you Taylor... I'm going to feed you bacteria some day!
While it has been really exciting finding a lab and joining it and finding a place here at MSU where I fit in and belong, it's also a really scary transition. I need to know things now. The current grad student is defending her work next week, then she is leaving for her post-doc at NYU. I will be second in command and one of the head honcho's around here. Kind of intimidating.
2. Sterling is gone again... He is actually traveling and away for half of the month in April. It's kind of crazy actually. Let's see, last weekend I dropped him off Friday morning to go to Gettysburg for the weekend (with ROTC) and I picked him up Sunday night. Monday morning I dropped him off at the airport to go to Seattle for a conference to present his research (from his masters work) and I get to pick him up Thursday night. Then on Sunday morning I will take him to the airport again to go to Virginia and I think I will pick him up next Thursday. Traveling man. It's kind of a prelude to what is on the horizon...
3. We have Sterling's leave date: May 23rd. Yeah, that's a little too soon for me. There is nothing I can do about it, but accept it and deal with it. Doesn't make it suck any less.
4. I am moving out of my apartment and into a house in a few months! Am I excited? So excited! The main reason is the fenced in backyard. My life will be so much easier! Especially with Sterling gone... that poor dog doesn't get nearly as much exercise as he would like so this will be wonderful for him. Plus I will have a roommate which will help when Sterling is away.
5. I am starting medical school in a few months. While I love the graduate program I am in here at MSU, I am so excited to start taking med classes. I mean, medical school was my goal for so long and now I am finally there! It's going to be hard (especially since I'm also doing grad school) but it will be so worth it in the end. Someday (in the far away future) I'll graduate and be able to do whatever I want... I just don't know what that is at the moment haha!
Okay, I think that I don't really have anything else new going on... so unfortunately, I need to get back to the reading and get back to taking pictures of guts (they are pretty cool looking though :))
Monday, March 21, 2011
Spring is in the air!
The weather makes me warm inside. I love being able to take my dog for a walk/run and not have to bundle up like I'm hiking through Antarctica. I know that we still have some cold days ahead, but I also know that spring is right on our doorstep!
Currently, I am still looking for a place to live come May. I think I may have found the house, but the landlord lives in Maryland which makes coordinating kind of hard. Because of this, I may have to keep looking. Is it too much to ask for a reasonably priced rental house with two bedrooms, a fenced in backyard, and a washer and dryer? I guess so. I am hoping to move mid-May so that Sterling can help before he leaves haha!
On that note, I've come to terms with my husband leaving. I'm (for the moment) at peace with the fact that we won't be living together for the next six or so years. After getting together with some of our other married couple friends (who shall remain nameless) that are having some issues with their first year of marriage, we've realized that we have been building a really good foundation for our long-distance marriage that is coming up quite quickly. I'm not saying that I won't be sad/upset when he leaves or that I won't miss him terribly, but it's okay that he's going. Actually, it's almost a good thing (almost... but not really). You see, I finally met with the DO/PhD coordinator and planned out my next six years of school. Starting at the end of June I will officially have no life. Classes, research, and studying will consume me. While I would love to have Sterling around (because I think he's wonderful), I know that I would be distracted a lot. Mainly because we have so much fun together and I'd rather hang out with him than study. So for that reason, it's ALMOST a good thing he's leaving. Almost. Not really though.
Did I say we've been training for a half marathon? Well rather... we are starting to train haha! Basically I have to increase a mile a week to get up to 13 miles by race time. I'm hoping to have a rocking bod by the end of May for all the weddings I am in and this will definitely help. The warm weather also helps. Running on a treadmill stinks!
Okay, I need to get back to work/studying. As always.
Monday, February 28, 2011
An update
Right after that last post, we got Sterlings training dates.
He's leaving the end of May/beginning of June. We don't know where his base is yet, that news will come in March (which starts tomorrow, sick).
So first he starts off as an officer at LTC (the same training he went to two summers ago). The good news is that I'll get to talk to him frequently and he may be able to come up for our one year anniversary (awesome!). That ends in the beginning of August and then he'll have some time off (maybe come home...) and then he'll start his infantry basic training at the end of August. That will go until the beginning of December and then hopefully he'll get to come home for the holidays before he starts Ranger School in January.
It's real now.
Hopefully he'll get to stay in May long enough to do our half marathon (on the 22nd).
Okay, I need to study now. Le sigh, such is the life of a grad student.
He's leaving the end of May/beginning of June. We don't know where his base is yet, that news will come in March (which starts tomorrow, sick).
So first he starts off as an officer at LTC (the same training he went to two summers ago). The good news is that I'll get to talk to him frequently and he may be able to come up for our one year anniversary (awesome!). That ends in the beginning of August and then he'll have some time off (maybe come home...) and then he'll start his infantry basic training at the end of August. That will go until the beginning of December and then hopefully he'll get to come home for the holidays before he starts Ranger School in January.
It's real now.
Hopefully he'll get to stay in May long enough to do our half marathon (on the 22nd).
Okay, I need to study now. Le sigh, such is the life of a grad student.
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
I am an... Army Wife?
Army wife?
A few years ago, those words meant that you graduated high school, married and got knocked up (in no particular order) to a guy going off to basic. Don't get me wrong, I do respect those ladies... however, I had more plans for my life than to become a wife who stays home with her three kids whom she's had before she's old enough to even buy a drink to help comfort herself.
But then Sterling joined the Army and my life changed. I realized that the Army isn't just for people who don't know what they want to do when they finish high school. The Army isn't for people with no where else to turn. It's also for educated people. It's also for people looking to make a good career.
So I got used to the idea that Sterling was in the Army. But ROTC isn't the real Army (I like to say that he's playing pretend Army haha...) I got used to hearing him talk about his classes and his officers and yada yada. The Army had infiltrated our home.
Then Sterling and I got married and we got to explain to a lot of people our life plans. They always include him being gone for seven or eight years. But that's in the future. There is no reason to dwell/worry about it now. Let's just get married and have a good time with each other.
And that is exactly what we have been doing. Except... March is creeping around the corner and that is when he will get his first set of real orders. We already know that he is branching infantry (another thing I like to push to the future to worry about), but we have no idea when he will be leaving. It could be June, October, December, or any time in between or longer. The infamous Army waiting game.
I've been really good at putting a good face on about Sterling leaving.
First he'll go to basic officer leadership course (like basic training for officers) and that is about 3 months. Then he'll go to ranger school which is about another 3 months (I believe). Then he'll go to his base to train with his unit... we'll find out where this base is in March as well (right now we are thinking either Kentucky or North Carolina). Sterling tells me that all of that will take up most of his first year. Normally their second year out they get deployed for 9-12 months. Suck. Then he'll come back to live on his designated base. The thing is, for what Sterling wants to do, there are no bases in Michigan. Which is where I'll be. In school. Really busy. Then he goes back and forth between working on base and deployments until his time is up. If he makes it a career, that's eight years. If he doesn't, then that's five years.
All the while, I'll be back here in Michigan.
I'm refusing to get upset until it's actually something to get upset about. But it is really hard. I'm going to miss how much fun we have together. He's not only my husband, but my best friend. I'm going to miss sleeping with him.
It's hard to think about, but I've been thinking more and more on it lately.
One of the officers from Sterling's program said this to me at the Military Ball a few weeks ago:
"If it was easy, everyone would do it"
So true.
A few years ago, those words meant that you graduated high school, married and got knocked up (in no particular order) to a guy going off to basic. Don't get me wrong, I do respect those ladies... however, I had more plans for my life than to become a wife who stays home with her three kids whom she's had before she's old enough to even buy a drink to help comfort herself.
But then Sterling joined the Army and my life changed. I realized that the Army isn't just for people who don't know what they want to do when they finish high school. The Army isn't for people with no where else to turn. It's also for educated people. It's also for people looking to make a good career.
So I got used to the idea that Sterling was in the Army. But ROTC isn't the real Army (I like to say that he's playing pretend Army haha...) I got used to hearing him talk about his classes and his officers and yada yada. The Army had infiltrated our home.
Then Sterling and I got married and we got to explain to a lot of people our life plans. They always include him being gone for seven or eight years. But that's in the future. There is no reason to dwell/worry about it now. Let's just get married and have a good time with each other.
And that is exactly what we have been doing. Except... March is creeping around the corner and that is when he will get his first set of real orders. We already know that he is branching infantry (another thing I like to push to the future to worry about), but we have no idea when he will be leaving. It could be June, October, December, or any time in between or longer. The infamous Army waiting game.
I've been really good at putting a good face on about Sterling leaving.
First he'll go to basic officer leadership course (like basic training for officers) and that is about 3 months. Then he'll go to ranger school which is about another 3 months (I believe). Then he'll go to his base to train with his unit... we'll find out where this base is in March as well (right now we are thinking either Kentucky or North Carolina). Sterling tells me that all of that will take up most of his first year. Normally their second year out they get deployed for 9-12 months. Suck. Then he'll come back to live on his designated base. The thing is, for what Sterling wants to do, there are no bases in Michigan. Which is where I'll be. In school. Really busy. Then he goes back and forth between working on base and deployments until his time is up. If he makes it a career, that's eight years. If he doesn't, then that's five years.
All the while, I'll be back here in Michigan.
I'm refusing to get upset until it's actually something to get upset about. But it is really hard. I'm going to miss how much fun we have together. He's not only my husband, but my best friend. I'm going to miss sleeping with him.
It's hard to think about, but I've been thinking more and more on it lately.
One of the officers from Sterling's program said this to me at the Military Ball a few weeks ago:
"If it was easy, everyone would do it"
So true.
Monday, February 14, 2011
Valentines Day
I love...
my husband
Hankus Magankus
my family (including the in-laws of course)
my church, Riverview
my lifegroup
my graduate program
my electric blanket
chocolate cupcakes
black coffee
my kindle
crocheting
the beach
my bridesmaids (who I miss dearly... including you Tay tay)
my CMU friends
my MSU friends
and most of all, my loving Father.
Happy Valentines Day everyone! Take some time today to let your loved ones know how much you love them :)
my husband
Hankus Magankus
my family (including the in-laws of course)
my church, Riverview
my lifegroup
my graduate program
my electric blanket
chocolate cupcakes
black coffee
my kindle
crocheting
the beach
my bridesmaids (who I miss dearly... including you Tay tay)
my CMU friends
my MSU friends
and most of all, my loving Father.
Happy Valentines Day everyone! Take some time today to let your loved ones know how much you love them :)
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